Friday, September 18, 2009

Date #24 - Chad

This was a 3 month stint that started in May and ended in heartache. So not to dwell on too many stories, here is a list to summarize it all:

Pros
  • Handsome. Very solid, good looking guy.
  • Great chemistry. The mutual attraction was palpable.
  • Smart. 99.9th percentile on his MCATs.
  • A doctor that loves his profession and is great at it. Job satisfaction! And job stability!
  • He brought out a great side in me. With him, my wit floweth. My caring knew no bounds. My OCD was put to a halt. My generosity was at its best.
  • He tought me knew words. My vocabulary was expanding.
  • We had a similar sense of humor. Laughter was abundant.
  • I was happy.
Cons
  • He was immature. He thought no girls pooped or farted. So I never pooped or farted in front of him. Or at least he thought so. ;)
  • He was inexperienced with love + relationships. He didn't start dating until he was 28.
  • He was extremely superficial. He spent more time on his hair than I did on mine.
  • He drove a Corvette. And wanted to upgrade his car to.... another Corvette! Yay!
  • He couldn't show me signs that he really cared for me. He blamed it on the fact he was emotionally devoid from his past relationships.
  • He never displayed affection in public because he, in a sense, was ashamed of me. He wanted me to dress up in heels and makeup so that others would envy him. I hid behind a "mask" of natural beauty, according to Dr. Awesome. Brilliant!
  • He would not try new things, experiences, places, etc.
  • Had a fear of flying. Never been on an airplane, said he never would.
  • Didn't have the balls to tell me he only cared for me as a friend, not a lover.
Sadly, this relationship would have hobbled along until he grew tired of the sex, or I got more sick of the situation I was in. I knew I deserved better, so despite me blindly falling for him, I had to break it off. Which is what I did.

Good riddance.

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