Pros
- Seems like a smart, smart man. From his profile it shows he went to an ivy league school, but never got to ask him where that was.
- He encourages creativity. He somehow got me jazzed up about painting again. And finding other ways to make my passion = my work. It's inspiring.
- He is very happy with his life, but he wants to always learn more and strike a better balance with work/life. Balance is always good.
- Open about giving me compliments. He commented on how he "liked my color" and I stupidly thought he was talking about my cool new blue sweater so I looked down at my sweater and started saying, "Oh yeah, thanks! I like this sweater blahblahblahblaa.." and he interrupts me with, "Nono, I meant your skin tone". *Palm in face*
Cons
- Not super attractive looking to me, but okay. He's tall and fit with pretty blue eyes though!
- He has longish hair that's a bit greasy. He keeps smoothing back his hair behind his ears. Just cut it goddamnit!!
- Don't really like his clothing taste. He had a leather jacket which is okay I guess, but a button up shirt (not a formal one, but just a casual one) which I wasn't crazy about.
So it seems my cons are all superficial. Man, I sound like an awful person, but it matters!! It really does!!
He asked me openly about the dates I'd had on match. I told him some were disasters whereas others were not bad. He told me how he dated a girl for about 6 months before off of match. And I also told him I am not looking for anything serious right now and am dating other guys - stick around if you'd like, otherwise hit the road jack (in much, much nicer tones of course). He said he'd stick around. Cool, he was okay with it. That's the spirit! ;)
I told him I'd like to hang out with him again. But if I continue to not find him physically attractive, I may have to cut it off. It wouldn't be fair for either of us. So we'll see where this goes.
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